Even though our societies are highly competitive, it is easy to forget that so many people are out there everyday trying to question your competence.
Sometimes, even the people closest to you dare to be doubtful about your capabilities and ultimate potential.
We waste a whole lot of time trying to prove some things to people that should not be of any importance of value to us…
Ultimately, we are the only losers in a game like that.
Once, people wanted to test the faster breed of animal by pitting some dogs against a cheetah.
The cheetah didn’t even leave his cage for the match. No one knows exactly why, but some people seem to believe that the cheetah found the challenge insulting.
Obviously, if the cheetah went out and raced against the other dogs, he would unconditionally win.
But is that a worthy prize? Is that something to be remembered for? Racing against those dogs was the biggest insult to the cheetah.
Now I don’t mean to increase your dangerous vanity by telling you that you should be nonchalant towards other people and their advances.
What I am suggesting is that sometimes, we shouldn’t try so hard to prove ourselves to people that are not really important in hindsight.
You don’t need to prove your worthiness to other people. Other people are hardly important.
What really matters is your goal and purpose.
Work towards achieving that goal and impress the right sort of people that can get you where you want to go, not any old soul who would undermine you with no justifiable cause.
You do not have to prove yourself to other people.
Other people should see your capabilities and potential for themselves, if they are conscious enough to see it.
Trying to prove yourself to the wrong sort of people can sometimes be the greatest insult to your own character.
I cannot, for the life of me, understand some people and the depths that they are willing to go through in order to prove their worth to people in their lives…
People who, frankly, couldn’t care less about them in the first place.
Do not be that type of person. This is not about vanity or ego, but self-respect and understanding.
At the end of the day, we are what we make ourselves to be!
A BIG HUG!!!
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Always read this text of notes because I can making important changes in this text like update names in the list and things to the growth and understanding of how we can improve our foundations and how this community was built until here.
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog.
Thanks All of You!!!!